plainly from a girl's heart

This is quite related to my recent post that was from a guy I know. But as I dug in to my so once upon a time files, I found this. I never thought I have profoundly vented what 's inside a girl's heart. Just read it. Gentlemen, this is primarily for you. =)

Y Even if she yells at you, even if you yell at her… always SHOW UP. Don’t ever forget to show up.

Y Always give her the reason to hold on to. Love her daily.

Y Five minutes can be forever to her.

Y REMEMBER: You can lose her no matter how much you love her, and how much she loves you.

Y If you argue, do not let it stay unsettled for the next 2 hours. It’s really NOW or NEVER.

Y All girls love surprises no matter how they deny it. Simple acts that can make her smile are really sweet.

Y Never talk about your friends to her TOO OFTEN.

Y Inform her where you are and what you are doing. That just defines the word concern. She will appreciate it. It makes her worried if you don’t.

Y Show her that you value your family more than your friends.

Y Do well in your work or school. It shows you are serious in building a good future for her.

Y Tell her your future plans.

Y Reply in her text messages no matter how rude she was.

Y When she tells you word that can hurts you, just tell her “I love you” and hug her. That would change the story. Sometimes, that is what she just wanted.

Y When you meet, always smile. Tell her how happy you’re with her.

Y Always tell her.

Y Do what you say you will. If you’re not sure, better not say it.

Y Never lie to her, and always tell her the truth. Those two are different.

Y When she’s mad, just hold her hand. Don’t get mad in return.

Y Say sorry once. And mean it. Don’t do the same mistake again.

Y Fight for her. Never let her go. It hurts when somebody is letting you go. Make her stay.

Y Let her feel your presence even if you’re far. And when you have time, even for 1 minute, be with her.

Y Appreciate her always.

Y When she says “leave”… just stay. If you will, come back.

Y It’s okay to have your guy friends with you at lunch, but at least ask her if it’s okay. Maybe she wants both of you to be alone.

Y When you’re mad at her, just let her explain. Take your time. But don’t forget how you love her.

Y When she doesn’t like the movie, don’t whine. Talk to her about anything. It’s really not about the movie. It’s all about your time together.

Y Decide for the both of you. Forget about the word “Ikaw…” (or in English, "you?")

Y Sometimes, it’s okay to insist… Insist that you don’t want to lose her… Insist that you’ll do your best to make it better… insist to make her stay.

This is insane. I just figured out just now that the previous post was really based on what I wrote. Yeah, I gave this to him. I hoped a lot of people learned.