how to relate and understand a girl

This is from someone who spent countless time with a girl he love(d), someone who tried to simplify the complexities of a girl, someone who quite realized how to make a girl smile, and someone who, maybe, wants to make things better.

1. Always SHOW UP even if you get in a fight. Don't ever forget to show up.
2. Love her daily. Always show her how much you respect and love her.
3. Never ever LIE and make excuses.
4. Even if she comes two hours late, NEVER let her see that you are pissed off instead smile at her and forget that she's late.
5. If she asks you to stay for 5 mins or so, never ever complain but always give her the time.
6. Do not let a day pass by for you to settle any argument or misunderstanding.
7. When she is upset, never ever argue with her instead find ways to cheer her up rather than get upset along with her.
8. Girls love surprises. So surprise her often. Even a simple note could brighten up her day.
9. Never talk about your friends too often when you are with her.
10. Always find time to inform her where you are and who you are with.
11. Show her that you prioritize your family over your friends.
12. Perform well in school or in your career. Do the best you can because it would give her a notion that you are serious about your future.
13. Share with her your future plans.
14. If she hurts you and she's having a bad day, hug her and gently whisper in her ear "I love you".
15. Always smile when you are with her and constantly remind her that you are happy with her.
16. Mean what you say and say what you mean.
17. Don't ever get mad in return.
18. When you say sorry better mean it and never do the same mistake again.
19. Let her feel you are always there and just BE WITH HER.
20. Appreciate her always.
21. When she wants you to leave just STAY.
22. If you have to choose between your friends and her during breaktime, be with her.
23. When you are mad, explain and tell her you love her.
24. When watching movies, never cry when you don't like the movie, do not pretend either but talk to her. It's not the move that counts, it's your time together.
25. Decide for the both of you. Lay down the options but never ever let her be the one to decide for both of you.
26. Insist when you think that you're losing her.
27. Always be a gentleman, open the door for her.
28. When she's bored , find an activity or a game that involves your interaction.
29. If her body aches, massage her hand, head and back.
30. If she's tired, offer you shoulder for her to lean to.
31. Always find ways to bless her.

Lastly, if she's falling out of love, MAKE HER FALL IN LOVE AGAIN...
* And if you lost her, give her time and space but always make her feel that you are still around and that you still love her..then WIN HER BACK and make sure it is for real because you don't want the same thing to happen again..if she doesn't want you back, just PRAY and hope that maybe one day in God's time, you might end up together again...NEVER LOSE HOPE BUT NEVER EXPECT TOO MUCH.. :)

Reading this made me smile. That is because in between the lines, I can clearly see my name. Though there are some ideas that are too much, still I find it sweet. But actually, girls aren't supposed to be understood. Girls like me are to be loved.